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The Good Enough Job: Reclaiming Life from Work by Simone Stolzoff
BATB score: 10/10 đđđ *required reading for office employees* we need to redefine our relationship with work because it is overrated and unhealthy Best for: any one who has said they are âpassionateâ about the industry, company, or role; do know that the feeling was never mutual đ Best as: if only we can compete on who has better work-life balance instead of who has better work success (over what sacrifice), life would be so much more enriching and interesting BATB linger


How to Enjoy Your Life and Job by Dale Carnegie
BATB score: 7/10 đ©” Best as: this book is borderline a scam as it is merely a collection of selected chapters from Dale Carnegieâs two other best sellers âHow to Win Friends and Influence Peopleâ and âHow to Stop Worrying and Start Livingâ Best to: however, it is a good refresher if you have read the other two best sellers a while back OR a good introduction to Dale Carnegie if you havenât read anything Dale Carnegie Best for: an extremely instagramable and quotable book BATB


Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things by Adam Grant
BATB score: 6.5/10 đ *reader discretion advised* BATB is starting to get really bored, annoyed, and tired with productivity books. In the spirit of mental health, can you please shut up? BATB lingering thought: well, if you read all of Adam Grantâs books then you got to read his new book right? ahe. Best to: this book has forty key takeaways; FORTY! I know he knows that FORTY is a little bit too much Best as: reference book for a lot of instagram-mable graphs and smarty Adam


How to Give Zero Fucks by Stephen Wildish
BATB score: 4/10 đ€Ź content wise the author gave zero f*cks Best for: the book aesthetics - the title, the cover design, the hardcover feels, the illustrations, the color print, the page texture, the publishing house smell; basically everything except the content itself Best as: not a bad gift for someone who obviously will not read the book beyond itâs title and maybe pretend to flip through the pages twice BATB lingering thought: this book is borderline annoying; the jokes


Same as Ever: Timeless Lessons on Risk, Opportunity, and Living a Good Life by Morgan Housel
BATB score: 8/10 đ€ Best to: it was very close to being very good book yet the 23 concepts were just all over the place; unlike Morgan Houselâs previous BATB 10/10 âPsychology of Moneyâ book that was just about money #duh Best as: back in 1950s, we all were poorer but happier than today and thatâs because there was no wealth gap, no one is better off, nothing to envy Best for: I believe many other book review pages would give this book a 10/10 so to avoid FOMO, read it BATB l


No Time to Panic: How I Curbed My Anxiety and Conquered a Lifetime of Panic Attacks by Matt Gutman
BATB score: 8.5/10 đ *reader discretion advised* this book on anxiety and panic attacks can trigger anxiety and panic attacks 𫚠Best to: as a national correspondent queued to be on LIVE television in five, four, [mouth reads] three, two, one; are your hands sweaty? is your heart rate rising? is your mouth quivering? why is the perfection stigma so psychologically decapitating? Best for: anyone who can relate to this quote > âWhy was it that I seemed to be more afraid of the


What to Say When You Talk to Yourself by Shad Helmstetter
BATB score: 5/10 â€ïžâđ©č this book on self-talk can be summarized in a 5-minutes elevator pitch Best to: your number one cheerleader is yourself #selftalk BATB lingering thought: a very similar concept to âThe Secretâ Rhonda Byrne about manifestation and self-hypnosis Best for: say this every morning âI really am very special. I like who I am and I feel good about myself. I smile a lot. I am happy on the inside and Iâm happy on the outside. I am positive. I am confident. I radi


Build the Life You Want: The Art and Science of Getting Happier by Arthur C. Brooks and Oprah Winfrey
BATB score: 9/10 đ *reader discretion advised* advanced reading skills required; quite scientific and nerdy Best to: macronutrients of happiness > enjoyment, satisfaction, and purpose; optimize what is important > family, friendship, work, and faith; when in doubt, you are just one of 8 billion human beings so be grateful, be in the present, and know that you will die soon Best for: whenever youâre unhappy, go walk bare foot in nature and find the experience of âaweâ - âthe


The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin
BATB score: 6/10 đ«„ love the fun fact scientific research references; hate the personal vlogs Best to: one year happiness project with monthly OKRs to appreciate the mundane and be a kinder person Best for: happy people are scientifically proven to be more physically attractive đ Best as: a very slow book for endless mellow rainy days Best quotes: âTo be happy, I need to think about feeling good, feeling bad, and feeling right, in an atmosphere of growth.â âWe hugged for at


Lighter: Let Go of the Past Connect with the Present Expand the Future by YĂșng Pueblo
BATB score: 3/10 đ«„ *reader discretion advised* Yung Puebloâs way of writing is like a bunch of standalone bullet points formatted in paragraphs - statements after statements thrown at you - urgh Best to: itâs like you wrote this book for yourself Best as: the premise of the whole book could have been an e-mail Best for: this book titled âlighterâ actually made me feel âheavierâ BATB trying to be nice: okay, I do like the short poems (but those could have been an e-card) Best


Designing Your Life: Build the Perfect Career, Step by Step by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans
BATB Score: 9.5/10 đšđïž Best for: we all need this book - fresh grads, midlife crisis, early retirement, Forbes 40 under 40 - we all need to take a day and just complete the workbook (at least once and forever more over and over again) BATB lingering thought: -0.5 points because there were moments in the book that I was like, đ I understand already please stop repeating yourself Best to: why wasnât this taught in school?! this is critical! emergency! paging Dr. Beat emergen


The Courage To Be Disliked: A Single book Can Change Your Life by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
BATB score: 4.5/10 âïž and thatâs why monks have no friends (and lives in a forest) đłđ Best to: the way the book is written is conversational, he said, he said, then he said, so itâs like youâre eavesdropping to a 1-1 discussion without the audience in mind; itâs all over the place, whereâs the meat, whatâs the point, where am I? BATB lingering thought: I hate a panel discussion whether thatâs 1-1 or worst yet 1-3, listening in to a conversation is not how humans best intake


What to Say When You Talk to Your Self by Shad Helmstetter, Ph.D.
BATB score: 5/10 â€ïžâđ©č second time reading this book and still 50-50 love/hate this book; Shad Helmstetter - truly reaping the goodie passive income of this book since 1986 (before I was born) and then upselling with his self-talk plus app with a monthly subscription of $19.99, payment via his own website to bypass Apple Store and Google Play store 30% transactions fee; you ahh, business man much Best to: thereâs many ways to self-hype: silent self-talk (voices in your brain)


Die With Zero: Getting All You Can From Your Money and Your Life by Bill Perkins
BATB score: 9.5/10 đ€Ż interesting indeed, âDie with Zeroâ is the idea that we make all that money, we spend all that money within our prime health, and we die with zero (not negative but zero excess) in the bank - yolo Best for: youâve did it! youâve already made way too much money! - now please spend more and âmake âmaximize total life enjoymentâ your mantraâ Best to: build more net worth for who again? âwealth will decline to zero by the date of deathâ anyways BATB lingerin


The Good Enough Job: Reclaiming Life from Work by Simone Stolzoff
BATB score: 9/10 đ„č second time reading this beautiful reminder to reclaiming life from work (that awful work that will never love you back) Best to: have other defining identities beyond work, ask âwhat do you like to do?â over âwhat do you doâ > I am a avid reader, author of Beauty and The Book page, a travel the world enthusiast, a beloved friend to some / a mean friend to some, a good asian daughter and daughter-in-law, I have sailor-moon energy to share, some call me sun


Feel Good Productivity: How to Do More of What Matters to You by Ali Abdaal
BATB score: 7/10 đŹ okay but not wow about how feeling good boosts our creativity and productivity Best to: only part 1 out of 3 is a BATB 10/10, part 2 was a knock off copy of Atomic Habits by James Clear, and part 3 was Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett; every section in this book is an elevator pitch BATB lingering thought: book recommended to BATB by a renowned c-level.. could it be that he only read part 1? Best as: take a break by taking a walk esp. take park walks al


The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins
BATB score: 3/10 đĄ oh my god shut up please Best as: a white entitled american auntie repeating âLet Themâ 850 times and âLet Meâ 575 times BATB lingering thought: I am going to Let Her write and love this book; and I am going to Let Me complaining about it on BATB. The chapters on finding love were exponentially cringey. Best to: search Mel Robbins on Instagram and watch maximum 3 reels [one for the core Let Them theory, one for the Friendship theory (proximity, timing, ene


You Can Be Happy No Matter What: Five Principles for Keeping Life in Perspective by Richard Carlson, Phd
BATB score: 2/10 đĄ an ancient book - published in 1992 aka 33 years ago! đ”ïžââïž Best to: thoughts shape your mood, low mood dismisses wisdom, wisdom comes from staying in the present; yeah, thatâs about it BATB lingering thought: okie this a key life lesson, when asked what is a book youâll recommend, knowing that the person asking and/or the audience listening would never read that book anyways, always recommend a book with a title that is a full sentence in itself; instant


Buddhism for Busy People: Finding Happiness in a Hurried World by David Michie
BATB score: 2/10 đĄ youâve wasted my time *said with an intimidating resting bitch face* please go zen away from me Best as: this is not how you introduce Buddhism to busy people; this is how you pissed off busy people with your repetitive writing style, softie storytelling, and weakest Buddhism pitch Best to: hire a very good ghost writer, re-write this book to a third of the size, get to the point donât waste time, raise only your killer best stories, gain better street cre


Time Anxiety: The Illusion of Urgency and a Better Way to Live by Chris Guillebeau
BATB score: 3/10 âïž Best to: this book on âtimeâ is a waste of time Best as: Chris Guillebeau is a weakling Best for: too basic for valedictorians, IVY league graduates, wartime leaders, all-star employees, and asians BATB lingering thought: your best excuse to say no to anything is âNo, thank you. Iâm going to die one day.â Best quotes: âYou feel regretful about the past, uncertain or hesitant about the present, and apprehensive of the future.â âIf everythingâs important, no
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