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I Want to Die but I *Still* Want to Eat Tteokbokki by Baek Sehee
BATB score 9/10 š„¹ Best as: honesty, if I have had her psychiatrist and had to endure these psychiatristās advices / conversations, I would have commit suicide too #RIP Best to: Korean psychiatrists is biased to the importance of keeping up with work you hate, guilt tripping quitting work, and ideal womenās appearances ie. Korean fat camp Best for: tough to be Korean Best quotes: āDo you think this depression, this helplessness, decreases interest or curiosity or fun in life?


I Want to Die But I Want to Eat Tteokbokki by Baek Sehee
BATB score: 6/10 š¤ a BATB re-read in memory of Baek Sehee #RIP Best to: we donāt know why Baek Sehee passed away at 35 years old though I do hope she passed away peacefully or at the very least at peace finally BATB lingering thought: from re-reading her book on her mental struggles - persistent depressive disorder - and her POV on free death, you have your suspicions but it doesnāt matter Best as: if thatās really the case, according to the details of the book, I donāt thin


Finding My Way: A Memoir by Malala Yousafzai
BATB score: 8/10 š Best as: damn, sometimes we forget that Malala Yousafzai, Pakistani education activist, is just a girl nothing special and she deserves to just be a girl nothing special Best to: a coming of age memoir of a Pakistani girl in Oxford University in love Best for: you have to know who Malala Yousafzai is and you should have read āI Am Malalaā book first Best quotes: āAs if the worst thing that ever happened to me was the most interesting part of my life.ā āTo


With the End in Mind: Dying, Death, and Wisdom in an Age of Denial by Kathryn Mannix
BATB score: 9/10 Best as: a diary of a doctor in palliative care guiding the dying through their last moments Best to: you know how we can only die once, and so we really canāt predict nor prepare how it would be (even those peaceful deaths), worst yet, those who have experienced full death can not come back #resurrection and share their learnings; and so thereās lot of anxiety on the leading days to death as a dying novice BATB linger thought: most common question is will it


Open When by Dr Julie Smith
BATB score: 3/10 šŖ Best as: a DIY manual on how to navigate oneself through lifeās challenging moments ie. when feeling left out, when feeling like an imposter, with grieve, with negative self-criticism, friendships, regrets, etc Best for: aliens š½ trying to impersonate humans š§š§āāļøš§āāļø Best to: like a supportive mentor giving you unsubstantiated advice through life BATB lingering thought: Dr. Julie Smith, were you in a rush to publish a second book to leverage the good


Moral Ambition: Stop Wasting Your Talent and Start Making a Difference by Rutger Bregman
BATB score: 9.5/10 š„¹ reader discretion advised not an easy read, book is trying to make a very unpopular difficult point, not early retirement but never retire to fight for a cause for the betterment of the world š šÆ Best to: are you team Gandhi or team Greta Thunberg; are you pure zen š§āāļø for self or passionate activist šāāļø for humankind? āMoral ambition is the will to make the world a wildly better place. Itās a longing to make a difference - and to build a legacy t


Meditations for Mortals: A Four Week Guide to Doing What Counts by Oliver Burkeman
BATB score: 5/10 š§āāļø reader discretion advised nothing on meditation Best as: 28 mini-chapters to be read over 28 days on how to live life a little bit lighter ; yet, mediocre daily mini-lessons š“ Best as: free basic therapy Best for: anxious people Best quotes: āIt is easier to try to be better than you are than to be who you are.ā āMost successful people are just a walking anxiety disorder, harnessed for productivity.ā āThereās no authority with the power to demand that


Million Dollar Weekend by Noah Kagan
BATB score: 4/10 š reader discretion advised book recommended by a renowned leader - you motherf$cker, you are dead to me! Best as: basic. on not HOW? but NOW! go start your business Best for: junior entrepreneurs BATB summary: about what business should I start? āWhatās the most painful / valuable problem you can solve for people that you also have passion for and/or unique expertise in, solve for the largest niche possible that you belong to and understand.ā BATB lingerin


My Next Breath by Jeremy Renner
BATB score: 1/10 š¤ Best to: Hawkeye, you are an actor and not an author; writing is not a good career path for you; your writing style is annoying Best as: just watch the 60-seconds tiktok video on Jeremy Rennerās snowplow incident; yes, he almost died, yes, he is okay now, yes, he is grateful Best for: you mentioned on page 1 that you didnāt want to write this book, yeah, you shouldnāt BATB lingering thought: aiyah, another celebrity writing a book to squeeze out some passi


The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller
BATB score: 8/10 reader discretion advised this is not a book, this is a white-paper research BATB summary: key point of the book > you werenāt allowed to explore and be your true self as a child, you model the āgood boys good girlsā that your parents wanted you to be, all in exchange for parental āunconditionalā love; you were smart / gifted enough to comply, and thus, you grew up depressed and broken from living somebody elseās āgood boys good girlsā life for no one but yo


When We're In Charge: The NEXT Generation's Guide to Leadership by Amanda Litman
BATB score: 6/10 š¤ content is quite common sense for millennials Best as: once Gen X workforce retires, roughly 2030, dear millennials itās our time to rise up and enforce work life separation! 4-day work weekš„ unlimited leave day š„ work as a means to an end š„ attack! Best for: millennials in the workforce, we are the adults in the room now Best to: millennials leaders to have a social media presence, awareness about diversity, equity, and inclusion, leadership with trans


Everything I Know About Love by Dolly Alderton
BATB score: 9/10 š„¹ Best for: female 30+ years old reminiscing those good old days and questioning what does the future holds Best as: a millennialās memoir about those younger sexier years going on Tinder dates BATB lingering thought: damn it, yes, Tinder was super fun for Millennials and no longer relevant for Gen Z š Best to: itās more about that few bffs that you have for life, heartfelt enjoyable read Best quotes: āYou have to choose which youād rather be: the woman who


Tiny Experiments: How To Live Freely in a Goal-Obsessed World by Anne-Laure Le Cunff
BATB score: 7/10 š good effort reader discretion advised another ex-googler leaving a ādream jobā due to burnout pivoted to writing a book about aspirational wellness; you might live a dream life, but whose dream is it? BATB lingering thought: Anne-Laure Le Cunff, ex-googler, is a neuroscientist now 𤯠Best to: the first 1/3 of the book was a 10/10 on why KPIs are harmful; nothing in life is on a positive linear trajectory duh š likeas this book everything just went downhi


The Idaho Four: An American Tragedy by James Patterson and Vicky Ward
BATB score: 1/10 š a complete waste of money and time Best as: the minute by minute recollection of the murder of four University of Idaho students back in November 2022 Best for: unnecessary to read unless you are super invested or related to this particular murder some way some how Best to: aiyah, author James Patterson, you published this book just in time for Bryan Kohberger sentencing July 23 2025 - verdict was four consecutive life sentences without parole; aiyah, you


While You Were Out: An Intimate Family Portrait of Mental Illness in an Era of Silence by Meg Kissinger
BATB score: 6/10 š Best to: mental illness runs in the family from alcoholic mother, to bipolar brother, to two siblings committing suicide BATB lingering thought: interesting, mental illnesses have been around since 1980s, has it gotten worse or just more vocal or both Best as: a memoir written by Meg Kissinger for Meg Kissinger to reminisce and make peace with everything Best for: it would have been more enjoyable if you knew the Kissinger, if not itās too long and wordy B


Iām Not Lazy, Iām on Energy Saving Mode by Dancing Snail š
BATB score: 5/10 š« Best for: the cute illustrations šÆ BATB lingering thought: text content wise, extreme meh š Best to: depressed korean gen z unable to truly acknowledge that one is depressed due to korean value for high productivity and respected norm to those who can tolerate shit Best as: a gift for a depressed gen z; not that the gen z will read it but at least the book cover is instagrammable Best quotes: ābelieving that certain unhappiness was better than uncertain


For the Culture: The Power Behind What We Buy, What We Do, and Who We Want to Be by Marcus Collins
BATB score: 8/10 š Best as: culture marketing playbook #legit Best to: everything in life is marketing - religion, music, global warming, everything Best for: marketers - āstart with the soul and end with the saleā because āWe were looking for fans when we should have been looking for believers.ā BATB lingering thought: āIf Thanksgiving is the day that we reflect on all that we have, then Black Friday is the day that we realize we donāt have enough.ā damn, imagine a marketin
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Never Not Working: Why the Always-On Culture is Bad for Business - and How to Fix It by Malissa Clark [2024]
BATB score: 9/10 š¤ Best as: workaholism is not only / not just putting extra hours at work, itās a toxic mental illness Best for: anyone who can relate > āWorkaholism involves that feeling in the pit of your stomach that you canāt rest, that you ought to be working all the time. Workaholism also involves feeling guilty and anxious when you are not working. Itās the fact that even if you are not physically doing work, you are thinking about that email you should send, mulling


The Psychology of Stupidity: explained by some of the world's smartest people by Jean-FranƧois Marmion
BATB score: 2/10 š Best as: this is not a book; itās a collection of individual pieces of writings and interviews of other people talking about āstupidityā Best to: the more you read the more redundant it is; you start to question yourself, why the hell are you reading this book? Best for: anyone who appreciate itās title and cover; thatās about it BATB lingering thought: dear future self, when writing our own book one day, make sure of a killer title and appealing cover des


What I Know For Sure by Oprah Winfrey
BATB score: 8/10 š„¹ Best to: words of wisdom that is not forced down your throat Best as: BATB re-read and it still feels like a grandmaās warm hug; that fuzzy feeling that makes your heart mellow - melting marshmallow Best for: any mature adult who just needs a grandmaās loving embrace - grandma made soft chocolate chip cookie from the freezer heated in the microwave for a few seconds eaten on a kitchen towel on the sofa while watching Jeopardy! BATB lingering thought: Oprah
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