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Will You Care If I Die? by Nicolas Lunabba
BATB score: 7/10 đ„ș Best as: Swedenâs dark side of teen guns and gangs, poverty for young immigrants, racism and homicides đžđȘ Best to: a memoir of a Swedish social worker who crossed the line and took one home BATB lingering thought: the ending got me chills Best for: something different to read, did you know about Swedenâs teen gun violence? I didnât either. Best quote: âWill you care if I die?â


Careless People: A story of where I used to work by Sarah Wynn-Williams
BATB score: 7/10 đ Best to: ex-facebooker director of public policy, minus-one to Mark Z and Sheryl S tells ALL; careless people on external global issues and internal company culture Best for: ex-facebookers, current meta-mates, anyone in public policy; weâve witnessed all of this BATB lingering thought: one for the road, one in a books; closure to once-a-facebooker - how you think about quitting everyday but takes years to finally quit (or in this case⊠*otherwise) - and s


The House of My Mother: A Daughterâs Quest for Freedom by Shari Franke
BATB score: 5/10 đ€š reader discretion advised: a 21st century memoir to family YouTube channel sensation, influencer monetization, zero childrenâs privacy, staged content, and cancel culture Best to: a perfect family life on-camera exposed by your eldest daughter; kudos to sissy for writing this memoir to save-ish her younger siblings BATB lingering thought: written by a 21-year-old, a memoir thatâs quite eloquent, great chapter structure, good use of advanced English vocabul


Escape from Camp 14 by Blaine Harden
BATB score: 7/10 đ± reader discretion advised: not for the faint-hearted; painful tales of children born in North Korea concentration camps Best as: from reading so many North Korea escapee stories, this one stands out as he had to escape from the concentration camps first and only then escaped from North Korea like the other escapee stories Best for: North Korea stories enthusiast Best to: scarier than North Korea is todayâs genocide in Gaza; scarier because this is globally


Chasing Hope: A Reporter's Life by Nicholas Kristof
BATB score: 9/10 đ Best as: Bill Gatesâ 2025 recommended read is 700 pages long; took BATB a distracted 1 month to complete - enjoyed most of the chapters tho Best to: a memoir of a New York Times columnist and Pulitzer Prize winner sharing the behind the scenes of Tiananmen Square, the Yemeni civil war, the Darfur genocide in Sudan, sex slave in Southeast Asia, Cuba warlords and so much more reportings BATB lingering thought: now whereâs the line between passive reporting a


My Time to Stand by Gypsy-Rose Blanchard
BATB score: 7/10 đ€Ż BATB loves victimâs memoir - own your story đȘ yeah! from the front page news, the unbelievable tragic story, the imprisonment, the documentary, âThe Actâ movie spin off; yes girl, you tell your story! Best for: you need prior knowledge on Dee Dee and Gypsy case, extreme Munchausen by Proxy, actually very famous case you should know BATB TL;DR: âWhen Dee Dee Blanchard was twenty-four years old, she gave life to me. When I was nearly twenty-four years old,


Your Mom's Gonna Love Me by Matt Rife
BATB score: 6/10 đ *reader discretion advised* BATB just wanted to know how did this comedian, Matt Rife, ended up on BATBâs For You feed?!? Best as: ahh okay, Matt Rife has always wanted to be a comedian and so he did! by self-sponsoring his first stand up show, posting clips on all social media, hit the jackpot with Tiktok For You algorithm, and boom ta da! đ world tour sold out đ Netflix Christmas special and wrote a memoir đ€Ż took 12 years Best for: you must have seen


Hunger: A Memoir of My Body by Roxane Gay
BATB score: 8/10 đ„č Best as: wow what a memoir on eating to suppress feelings, eating as a defense mechanism, eating to hide to the point of morbid obesity BATB TL;DR: sexually abused at 12, turned to eating to numb feels to the point of obesity Best to: redundant with each chapter but forgivable Best for: any women out there who agrees that fat shaming and fat dysmorphia is real; even if you are not (that) fat you wish to be less fat Best quotes: âI reserve my most elaborate


I Want to Die but I *Still* Want to Eat Tteokbokki by Baek Sehee
BATB score 9/10 đ„č Best as: honesty, if I have had her psychiatrist and had to endure these psychiatristâs advices / conversations, I would have commit suicide too #RIP Best to: Korean psychiatrists is biased to the importance of keeping up with work you hate, guilt tripping quitting work, and ideal womenâs appearances ie. Korean fat camp Best for: tough to be Korean Best quotes: âDo you think this depression, this helplessness, decreases interest or curiosity or fun in life?


I Want to Die But I Want to Eat Tteokbokki by Baek Sehee
BATB score: 6/10 đ€ a BATB re-read in memory of Baek Sehee #RIP Best to: we donât know why Baek Sehee passed away at 35 years old though I do hope she passed away peacefully or at the very least at peace finally BATB lingering thought: from re-reading her book on her mental struggles - persistent depressive disorder - and her POV on free death, you have your suspicions but it doesnât matter Best as: if thatâs really the case, according to the details of the book, I donât thin


Finding My Way: A Memoir by Malala Yousafzai
BATB score: 8/10 đ Best as: damn, sometimes we forget that Malala Yousafzai, Pakistani education activist, is just a girl nothing special and she deserves to just be a girl nothing special Best to: a coming of age memoir of a Pakistani girl in Oxford University in love Best for: you have to know who Malala Yousafzai is and you should have read âI Am Malalaâ book first Best quotes: âAs if the worst thing that ever happened to me was the most interesting part of my life.â âTo


My Next Breath by Jeremy Renner
BATB score: 1/10 đ€ Best to: Hawkeye, you are an actor and not an author; writing is not a good career path for you; your writing style is annoying Best as: just watch the 60-seconds tiktok video on Jeremy Rennerâs snowplow incident; yes, he almost died, yes, he is okay now, yes, he is grateful Best for: you mentioned on page 1 that you didnât want to write this book, yeah, you shouldnât BATB lingering thought: aiyah, another celebrity writing a book to squeeze out some passi


Everything I Know About Love by Dolly Alderton
BATB score: 9/10 đ„č Best for: female 30+ years old reminiscing those good old days and questioning what does the future holds Best as: a millennialâs memoir about those younger sexier years going on Tinder dates BATB lingering thought: damn it, yes, Tinder was super fun for Millennials and no longer relevant for Gen Z đ Best to: itâs more about that few bffs that you have for life, heartfelt enjoyable read Best quotes: âYou have to choose which youâd rather be: the woman who


What I Know For Sure by Oprah Winfrey
BATB score: 8/10 đ„č Best to: words of wisdom that is not forced down your throat Best as: BATB re-read and it still feels like a grandmaâs warm hug; that fuzzy feeling that makes your heart mellow - melting marshmallow Best for: any mature adult who just needs a grandmaâs loving embrace - grandma made soft chocolate chip cookie from the freezer heated in the microwave for a few seconds eaten on a kitchen towel on the sofa while watching Jeopardy! BATB lingering thought: Oprah


This is Going to Hurt by Adam Kay
BATB score: 7/10 đ«¶ re-read of BATBâs favorite books: Adam Kay quits becoming a doctor and became a comedian instead đŻ this book is his diary entries Best to: would love to read about the thought process of leaving at the final year of doctor residency, oneâs mental talk, stakeholders / family expectation management, and how does one come back and make sense of it all Best as: any career is tough when you put your heart into it đ„č Best for: anyone who wants to be a doctor or


Stupid Things I Won't Do When I Get Old: A Highly Judgmental, Unapologetically Honest Accounting of All the Things Our Elders Are Doing Wrong by Steven Petrow
BATB score: 6/10 Best to: pretty much common sense on what not to do when you get old but a good reminder nonetheless Best as: a fun and funny read Best for: a memoir of a 60+ year old, Steven Petrow, renowned Washington Post and New York Times journalist, yet his most treasured memories were not about work; anybody who needs this reminder Best quotes: âeach of us is old when we think we are - when we accept an attitude of dormancy, dependence on others, a substantial limitat


An Unquiet Mind by Kay Redfield Jamison
BATB score: 8/10 đ«¶ Adam Kayâs top five best medical memoirs recommendations Best as: a psychologist specializing in mood disorders who has bipolar disorder + maniac depression herself đ€Ż Best to: beautifully written and eloquently narrated the feelings and struggles of depression Best for: a doctorâs memoir- I believe it is impossible for one to know what depression feels like unless you have had it Best quotes: âThe Chinese believe that before you can conquer a beast you fi
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