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What Happened to You? Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing by Bruce D. Perry MD. Ph.D and Oprah Winfrey
BATB score: 8.8/10 ๐ค Psychiatrist on childhood trauma "Dr. Bruce D. Perry" meets billionaire most influential person "Oprah Winfrey" in a critical book discussing the messed up things adults do to children, the childhood trauma faced, how it affects a child, and how to heal a broken one. Best to: stop being so judgmental and asking "what's wrong with you?" but rather compassionately ask "what happened to you?" as something must have had happened that wasn't right Best for: s


How to Avoid a Climate Disaster: The Solutions We Have and The Breakthroughs We Need by Bill Gates
BATB score: 7/10 ๐คฏ๐๐ฅถ Introduction to Climate Change for Dummies by the one and only billionaire philanthropist Bill Gates (gates, gates gates) ๐ฃ Best to: remember only two numbers: 51 billion is how many tons of greenhouse gases the world typically adds to the atmosphere every years aka where we are today; and ZERO greenhouse gases emission is what we need to aim for to survive Best for: you know how Bill Gates predicted an epidemic virus that will kill millions in his 20


What We Owe Each Other: A New Social Contract by Minouche Shafik
BATB score: 6/10 ๐ฉโ๐ป๐ฎโโ๏ธ๐ทโโ๏ธ๐ฉโ๐ณ Introduction to social contracts - our roles and responsibility of generations and political administrations Best to: heavily researched and thoroughly written - at times, topics all over the place, a tad bit difficult to follow; discussion of social issues from healthcare, education, retirement, and all that we owe each other Best for: debaters, worker unions, political parties, democratic leaders, military government, members of the mon


Tuesdays with Morrie: an old man, a young man, and life's greatest lesson by Mitch Albom
BATB score: 10/10 ๐ค This book is a series of interviews about life and death from a dying soul's perspective - โonce you learn how to die, you learn how to live.โ Best to: a slap in the face to all of us who traded dreams for a bigger paycheck #idiot likeas we have years to spare Best for: all of us questioning, finding, and believing in the meaning of life Best as: "the most important thing in life is to learn how to give our love and to let it come in" Random thought: damn


Invent & Wander: The Collected Writing of Jeff Bezos by Walter Isaacson
BATB score: 6.6/10 ๐๐๐ Literally a collection of Jeff Bezos's annual shareholder letters, speeches, interviews, and memos. Snippets from everywhere bound together in a zip file book format. Best to: some credit for being able to look through Jeff Bezos's evolution of annual shareholder letters; love love love how he always end with 'I am super lucky/proud/thankful/joyous to be part of the Amazon team. It's still Day 1" since 1997. Best for: linguist and leaders speaking on


Counting the Cost by Jill Duggar Dillard
BATB score: 7/10 Best for: you must have prior knowledge or have binged watched The Duggarโs โ19 Kids and Countingโ and/or โJill and Jessa: Counting Onโ Reality Show; I kid you not this was as big as โKeeping Up With the Kardashiansโ back in 2008-2015 Best to: a memoir from Duggarโs child number 4 out of 19 children about how Daddy Duggar took all the payouts and how fame and money breaks family BATB lingering thought: apparently, the family made 8 million USD for 7 seasons b


How Will You Measure Your Life? by Clayton Christensen, James Allworth and Karen Dillon
BATB score: 5/10 ๐ฏ This book is about taking a step back and understanding your true meaning of life, whether you have committed to such ambitions or have delayed such gratification. Claiming that friends and family are important to you yet will cancel on them for ad hoc work ๐ฏ%. Best to: the first half of the book was legit strong ๐ช while the second half was a tad bit watery and wonky; yet definitely good stuff in its entirety, easily digestible and an easy read Best for:


Quantum Marketing: Mastering the New Marketing Mindset for Tomorrow's Consumers by Raja Rajamannar
BATB score: 7/10 ๐ Random Fact: Thailand's ex-prime minister Yingluck S. recommended this book on her personal FB; I believe once you were ousted out you do have a lot of time to catch up on reading la la la. Best to: started poorly basic but ended quite conclusive - everything you need to know about the fifth paradigm marketing; book content structured like a typical university course book - defining terms and briefly explaining the gist of such subject term before moving o


Triggers: Sparking Positive Change and Making It Last by Marshall Goldsmith
BATB score: 7/10 โก๏ธ Did I do my best to be happy? Did I do my best to find meaning? A book about owning your life as a protagonist for being a better version of yourself everyday. Best to: read Marshall Goldsmith's "What Got You Here Won't Get You There" ๐ first and foremost; then if you are still keen, have a take on this book Best for: guilt-ridden victim of "satisficing" - our tendency to commodify everyday choices because chasing that last bit of improvement is not worth


The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog: and Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist's Notebook by Bruce D. Perry MD. PhD and Maia Szalavitz
BATB score: 8.8/10 ๐ค *Reader Discretion Advised* not for the faint heart ๐ - the description of child trauma cases were explicit, heart-breaking, depressing, and unfortunately true stories. Best to: this is not a leisure read but an exploratory, educational, specialised read; as a matter of fact, this is a required textbook for undergraduate and graduate classes in sociology, neuroscience, psychology, criminology, and many other disciplines #respect Best for: keen academic


Crying in H Mart by Michelle Cavner
BATB score: 7/10 ๐๐๐ A heartfelt memoir from the perspective of an American-Korean daughter through her Korean mother's battle with cancer, reconciliation attempts with her father, and the post-mortem dreams and memories of her mother's Asian influences. Best to: mothers are always right - "Mommy is the only one who will tell you the truth, because Mommy is the only one who ever truly love you." Best for: daughters of all ages and all walks of life - one day your tough lov


High Conflict: Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out by Amanda Ripley
BATB score: 5/10 ๐ข Not bad but boring. Best to: finding good points in this book was like finding needles in the haystack among the clustered anecdotes; they're there but where? the book can be summarised into a one-pager. Best for: street protestors. the book talks about how to avoid and resolve high conflicts; in a way, the opposite can be used to start one ๐ฅ Best as: "Real change requires putting sustained pressure on people and institutions that benefit from the current


Let My People Go Surfing: The Education of a Reluctant Businessman by Yvon Chouinard
BATB score: 5/10 ๐โโ๏ธ๐ too detailed and written in textbook style an autobiography on who is Yvon Chouinard, the origins of Patagonia Inc, and the philosophy behind the business environmental morales and day-to-day enjoyable and sustainable operations Best to: true passion driven business ๐ฏ started with the love for the outdoors; translates into business values 'let my people go surfing' flextime policy, donating 10% of profit to non-profit environmental groups, and creati


Multipliers: How the Best Leaders Make Everyone Smarter by Liz Wiseman
BATB score: 10/10 ๐ Life-changing book for all people managers. Are you a genius or are you a genius maker? Best to: concise, tangible, practical ๐ฏ how the best leaders make everyone smarter; two types of managers out there: diminishers and multipliers; multipliers get 2X from their team and builds a legacy as a genius maker Best for: should be a required read for all people managers; raise your hands if you have asked for more headcount yet your team is working hard but no


One + One = Three: A Masterclass in Creative Thinking by Dave Trott
BATB score: 6.3/10 ๐ Best to: first 50-pages game strong intel, the rest 170 pages were alright Best for: when your creative director recommends a book into a world of colourful creative minds, you do what it takes to see things from the same wonderland viewpoint Best as: Dave Trott writing style - short story snippets 2-3 pages long and moving on to the next chop chop story; legit easy read Best quotes: โyou can have what you want, or you can have your reasons for not havin


Reasons to Stay Alive by Matt Haig
BATB score: 10/10 ๐ค relatable in every way; thank you #MattHaig for writing this book to shed light on depression as an illness and as common brain mishap Best to: beautifully personal and eloquently elaborative of someone going through depression, comprising of inner demons and anxiety that makes living difficult Best for: everyone should read this regardless of whether you are a sufferer, a survivor of, or merely a fellow friend of anyone going through depression #BeAnAlly


Noise: A Flaw in Human Judgment by Daniel Kahneman
BATB score: 3/10 ๐๐ฃ๐ *Reader discretion advised* Daniel Kahneman devotees, you are not going to like what I am about to say... Best to: Kahneman himself wrote in his book's introduction that it is advisable to skip part 3 & 4 of this 6-part book. How odd is that? What kind of good author writes a book that is so difficult to digest, too technical and too watery (not conveying any impactful learnings relative to the number of pages) and admittedly recommends readers to skip


Finding Chika: a Little Girl, an Earthquake, and the Making of a Family by Mitch Albom
BATB score: 10/10 ๐ฏ๐ฅบ๐ my heart hurts. a sad, emotional, and heartfelt memoir for Chika - a bubbly 7-year-old battling brain tumour DIPG, the hopeful journeys of legal guardians, and the feelings left behind. Best to: Mitch Albom is an amazing author in conveying emotions and affections in very simple writing; easily digestible by readers and, for sure, strike a chord in readers' hearts ๐ฏ๐ Best for: if you are going to read only one book this year, read this book. If you


Four Thousand Weeks: Time and How to Use It by Oliver Burkeman
BATB score: 9/10 ๐ Best to: a twist to you only live once #yolo, live today like it's your last, the art of not giving a f*ck, and other time is finite mantras Best for: over-achievers, move fast rushers, high productivity zombies to take a chill pill ๐ Best as: we only have four thousand weeks; i am on my 1616/4000 week; with that said, am I living my current week the way I utmost want to? Best quote: โeven the winners in our achievement-obsessed culture - the ones who mak


Being Mortal: Illness, Medicine, and What Matters in the End by Atul Gawande
BATB score: 10/10 ๐ค nobody writes about our inevitable mortality like Dr. Atul Gawande #bravo ๐ Best to: our impulse is to fight death - chemo, surgery, sutures, bring it; there is always something more that the doctors can do. but the fact that we are trying so hard to fix things may be shortening or worsening the time we hardly have left. so is it quantity or quality? Best for: all of us. eye-opening; ask your loved ones today "if time becomes short, what is most importan
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